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Inspire by Showing Up: Why Presence Is a Practice Every Nurse Leader Can Master

Dr. Kelly Kester shares why leader rounding isn’t another task to add to your calendar. It’s one of the most powerful ways to build trust, strengthen retention, and improve the experience of both staff and patients.

August 3, 2026

What I Learned in Fifteen Minutes.

Early one morning, after setting my bag down in my office, I stepped back onto my medical-surgical unit to begin leader rounding. I noticed one of my nurses gathering supplies outside a patient’s room and asked if I could help. He was preparing to stand his patient for a wound dressing change and needed another set of hands.

My intention wasn’t to interrupt his work. It was to help. And as I helped, I learned more about him, his patient, and his shift than I ever would have in a formal sit-down, all while making his work a little easier. While we worked together, we talked about his family, his recent vacation, and whether there was anything he needed from me. The patient shared that he missed his dog and was feeling down. Those few minutes gave me a window into both the patient experience and my nurse’s day that I simply couldn’t have gained from behind a desk.

I was also observing the environment. Was the central line dressing clean and intact? Were fall precautions in place? Did the nurse have the equipment and supplies he needed? Administrative work still needs to get done, but it doesn’t always require a clipboard and a checklist. Sometimes the best way to assess quality is to be part of the work itself.

Fifteen minutes later, we had finished the dressing change, settled the patient, tidied the room, and I was on my way to the next stop. In that short time, I had rounded on the nurse, the patient, and the environment while completing part of my quality rounds. More importantly, I had strengthened a relationship, and that’s where retention begins.

What We Keep Asking: Why Do Nurses Leave?

Ask a nurse why she left her last position, and she will rarely say it was the work itself. More often, it was the feeling of being unseen: concerns raised and never resolved, a leader who existed mostly in email signatures and meeting invites, contributions that went unacknowledged until the exit interview. 

Retention is often framed as a compensation problem or a staffing problem, and those factors matter. But the evidence points to something more directly within a leader’s control. The American Association of Critical-Care Nurses (AACN) Healthy Work Environment standards (skilled communication, true collaboration, effective decision making, appropriate staffing, meaningful recognition, and authentic leadership) have been linked for nearly two decades to nurse satisfaction, engagement, and intent to stay (AACN, 2016). Notably, at least four of the six depend on something deceptively simple: leaders being present, listening, and acting on what they hear. 

Time management is not merely an administrative skill for nurse leaders. It is a retention strategy.

How a leader allocates their hours sends the clearest possible message about what, and who, matters. And few practices concentrate that message more powerfully than intentional leader rounding. 

What the Evidence Says About Rounding

Leader rounding, defined as protected and recurring time spent in purposeful one-on-one conversation with staff, has a substantial evidence base. Studies have linked structured leader rounding to improved nurse satisfaction with leadership (Blake & Bacon, 2020), patient safety (Russell et al., 2026), and quality of care (Meyer et al., 2020). A systematic review of nurse manager intentional rounding connected the practice to outcomes for both staff and patients (Bayram et al., 2023). And although engagement and workplace support are less often measured in the research, those of us who have practiced this strategy have felt their impact firsthand: teams that are rounded on well feel more connected, more supported, and more willing to speak up. 

An important caveat makes the case stronger, not weaker. A 2023 study by the American Organization for Nursing Leadership (AONL) and Crucial Learning found that ritualistic, checklist-driven rounding (frequency without feeling) showed no relationship to retention (Grenny et al., 2023). What distinguished leaders with unusually high retention was genuine connection: staff who felt cared for, supported in their growth, and helped with real problems. Nurses whose managers focused on help, care, and growth were 81% more likely to say they intended to stay in their positions indefinitely (Grenny et al., 2023).  

Rounding works when it is a vehicle for relationship, not a task to be documented.

Done with that intent, rounding delivers on four fronts that directly influence whether nurses, nursing assistants, and support staff stay. 

4 Fronts that Directly Influence Whether Staff Stay

1. Presence: the foundation of authentic leadership 

When staff see their leader regularly, on nights and weekends rather than just weekday mornings, presence stops being an event and becomes an expectation. Visibility builds trust before trust is ever tested, and it operationalizes the AACN standard of authentic leadership. Staff cannot perceive a leader as engaged in a work environment the leader never witnesses firsthand. 

Presence is also the precondition for psychological safety. Staff are far more willing to voice a concern, report a near miss, or ask for help when they believe their leader genuinely understands the reality of their shift. There is a meaningful difference between a nurse who says “my manager has no idea what it’s like out here” and one who says “my leader knows what my shift is actually like.” The first nurse edits what she shares; the second tells you the truth. Only one of those units gives its leader accurate information to act on, and only one of them builds the kind of trust that keeps people. 

2. Relationship-building: the pathway to meaningful recognition 

Rounding creates the repeated, low-stakes touchpoints that relationships require. Leaders learn names, career goals, and frustrations: the human context that makes recognition meaningful rather than generic. The AACN standard is explicit that recognition must be personal and valued by the recipient, and that specificity is nearly impossible without regular conversation. 

This is also where belonging is built, and belonging is one of the strongest predictors of intent to stay. A nurse who feels known, whose leader remembers her certification exam, her new grandchild, and her goal of moving into a charge role, is describing a relationship, not just a job. And rounding extends that felt belonging to the team members most often overlooked: nursing assistants, unit secretaries, and support staff, who rarely appear on recognition programs’ radar yet shape the daily experience of every nurse and patient on the unit. When they feel seen, the whole team stabilizes. 

3. Communication: closing the loop in both directions 

Skilled communication, the first AACN standard, is bidirectional. Rounding gives leaders a real-time channel to share the “why” behind organizational decisions, and gives staff a trusted channel to surface what is actually happening on the unit long before it appears in an engagement survey or a resignation letter. 

Think of rounding as an early-warning system. The frustrations that drive turnover rarely arrive as emergencies; they accumulate quietly: a supply chain workaround here, a scheduling inequity there, a piece of equipment that has been “getting fixed” for a month. Leaders who round hear these signals while they are still small and solvable. Leaders who do not round discover them in exit interviews, when the gap between frontline reality and leadership perception has already cost them a nurse. Every round narrows that gap. 

4. Real-time problem resolution: proof that speaking up works 

Nothing erodes trust faster than a concern raised and forgotten. Rounding paired with visible follow-through, such as a broken piece of equipment replaced or a workflow barrier escalated and resolved, demonstrates that staff voice produces change. This is where the AONL finding lands hardest: rounding without follow-through may be worse than no rounding at all, because it teaches staff that speaking up is ceremonial. 

Closing the loop does not require sophisticated infrastructure. A simple issue log, noting what was raised, by whom, and what happened next, reviewed weekly, is enough, provided the leader returns to the person who raised the concern and reports back. “You told me the wound vac supplies kept running out; here is what we changed” takes thirty seconds to say and builds more loyalty than a month of generic recognition emails. Resolved problems compound: each one is evidence that this is a unit where problems get fixed, and people stay on units where problems get fixed. 

The evidence is compelling, but the case for rounding is easiest to see in the moments too small to show up in any dataset. 

Consider the patient who was feeling down and missing his dog. That same day, we coordinated a pet therapy visit with our resident Golden Retriever, Charlie. Even better, we arranged permission for the patient’s own dog to visit the next day. Rounding early that morning is what made it possible; without it, I most likely never would have known about the patient’s low spirits. Fifteen minutes of presence changed that patient’s week, showed his nurse that raising a concern leads somewhere, and reminded the whole team what kind of unit they work on. No checklist produces that. 

Making the Time

The most common objection to rounding is the most honest one: there is no time.

Nurse leaders’ calendars are crowded with meetings, reports, and escalations, and rounding is usually the first thing sacrificed when the day compresses. But that framing treats rounding as discretionary, and the evidence says it is anything but. 

Start with a calendar audit. Look back at the last two weeks and sort your hours into three categories: work only you can do, work someone else could do, and work that arguably does not need to be done at all. Most leaders who complete this exercise find recurring meetings they attend out of habit, reports that duplicate existing data, and tasks that belong with a charge nurse, an assistant manager, or an administrative partner. Delegation is not abdication; it is how leaders buy back the hours that only they can spend. 

Then protect the time you recover. Put rounding on the calendar as a standing, non-negotiable appointment, the same way you would treat a meeting with your chief nursing officer. Vary the days and hours so every shift sees you; nothing signals “some of you matter more than others” like a leader who only rounds Tuesday mid-morning while the night shift is never rounded on. If it helps, tell your team the commitment out loud. Public commitments are harder to break, and your team will notice you keeping this one. 

What Rounding Is Not

Because rounding is easy to mandate and hard to do well, it is worth naming what it is not. Rounding is not surveillance. Staff can feel the difference between a leader who shows up to connect and one who shows up to inspect, and only one of those builds trust. It is not a scripted checklist, where the leader asks the same four questions, records the answers, and leaves; the AONL data shows that version accomplishes nothing. And it is not a quarterly gesture that appears when engagement scores dip and vanishes when the calendar fills. 

The distinguishing variable is connection, not frequency. One genuine fifteen-minute interaction, whether helping with a dressing change, following up on last week’s concern, or asking about the vacation by name, outweighs a month of doorway drive-bys. If a rounding practice could be performed identically by someone who does not know the team, it is not the practice the evidence supports. 

The Ripple Effect

Retention conversations tend to center on RNs, and understandably so. But the units that keep their nurses are the ones that keep their whole team. Nursing assistants, unit secretaries, therapists, and environmental services staff shape every shift a nurse works; when that supporting cast turns over constantly, nurses absorb the instability: orienting replacements, covering gaps, and losing the shorthand that makes a team efficient. Rounding that includes every role protects the ecosystem nurses stay for. 

This is also how a healthy work environment becomes a multiplier. Each AACN standard reinforces the others: presence enables skilled communication, communication surfaces problems, resolved problems build trust, and trust makes recognition land as genuine. A leader who rounds well is not executing one retention tactic; they are compounding six standards at once. That is why the same fifteen minutes that comforted one patient also touched quality metrics, staff engagement, and team culture. Presence pays in every currency a unit runs on. 

Here’s How to Get Started

Presence is not a personality trait some leaders have and others lack; it is a practice.

Here is where to begin: 

  • Audit your calendar. Look back at the last two weeks and sort your hours into what only you can do, what can be delegated, and what can be eliminated. The hours you recover become your rounding time. 
  • Make rounding a standing appointment. Block it on your calendar like a meeting with your CNO, and vary the days and hours so every shift, including nights and weekends, sees you regularly. 
  • Show up to help, not to inspect. Leave the clipboard behind. Join a dressing change, answer a call light, pull the trash. Helping opens conversations a checklist never will. 
  • Ask, then act. Keep a simple log of concerns raised, and always circle back to the person who raised them. Follow-through is what turns rounding into trust. 
  • Include the whole team. Round on nursing assistants, unit secretaries, and support staff, too. Retention is a team outcome, and everyone deserves to be seen. 

Start with next week’s calendar. Your team is already reading it. 

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References 

American Association of Critical-Care Nurses. (2016). AACN standards for establishing and sustaining healthy work environments: A journey to excellence (2nd ed.). https://www.aacn.org/nursing-excellence/standards/aacn-standards-for-establishing-and-sustaining-healthy-work-environments 

Blake, P.G. & Bacon, C.T. (2020). Structured rounding to improve staff nurse satisfaction with leadership. Nurse Leader, 18(5), 461-466. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.mnl.2020.04.009 

Bayram, A., Özsaban, A., Longhini, J., & Palese, A. (2023). Nurse manager intentional rounding and outcomes: Findings of a systematic review. Journal of Advanced Nursing, 79(3), 896–909. https://doi.org/10.1111/jan.15307 

Grenny, J., Begley, R., & Hancock, B. (2023). Connection is retention: Lessons from leaders with unusually high nurse retention. Crucial Learning & American Organization for Nursing Leadership. https://cruciallearning.com/resource-center/healthcare/nurse-study/ 

Meyer, P., Hill, C., & Baker, D. (2020). Standardizing nurse leader safety rounds to promote highly reliable care. Journal of Nursing Care Quality, 35(3), 252-257. https://doi.org/10.1097/NCQ.0000000000000445 

Russell, C., Gaffaney, M., Reilly, J., Rudoy, I., & Maraccini, A. The impact of nurse leader rounding on patient satisfaction: A post-hoc analysis of trust, communication, and collaboration in inpatient care. Journal of Patient Experience, 13, 1-5. https://doi.org/10.1177/23743735261465564 

Kelly Kester

Dr. Kelly Kester

Vice President of Operations and Business Development
DNP, RN, NE-BC, CCRN

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